Intolerance 2.0: Aleks Syntek vs. Reggaeton

Aleks Syntek's son almost got into a physical altercation over musical preference. Fostering tolerance and individuality becomes key to building a different society. Let's scrutinize this.

Aleks Syntek

Aleks Syntek is a renowned Mexican singer, writer, and composer who straight-up detonated a hate bomb for reggaeton back in 2022! He struggles to understand why audiences of the genre enjoy the reggaeton rhythms, misogynistic lyrics, and vulgarities where women are portrayed solely as sexual objects.

So, Syntek shared an experience when he was at a restaurant in an airport and reggaeton was playing in the background. This prompted him to advocate loudly and boldly for the regulation of when this genre should be played in public places. He straight-up called it "inappropriate," and added, "We need to control our animal instincts, or else we turn into monkeys." For those unfamiliar with Mexican slang, "volverse chango" can mean going crazy, or as described in various publications, it can refer to someone acting like a primate.

But here's the question to Aleks Syntek: besides you and your family, who else looked uncomfortable about this music in that same public place? Instead of expecting the volume to be turned down by law or something, why don't you and your kids learn to roll with the flow? I mean, come on, why not teach your kids to be adaptable? Wearing some headphones ain't that hard, am I right?

This TikTok provides some context:

"Don't Mess with my Kids!"

Aleks Syntek recently shared a video where he requests respect for his family, specifically his son, who almost got into a physical altercation at a party because reggaeton had been playing for five hours straight! He requested that music by bands like Gorillaz and The Killers be played instead, but he wasn't permitted to change it.

The renowned singer-songwriter recounted instances where his son, on multiple occasions, favored bands like Queen or Coldplay during gatherings with friends, leading to confrontations over musical differences when his friends wanted to play urban music. Syntek proudly highlights that his son doesn't enjoy this music on conviction, and he ended up leaving the party as he was already pretty uncomfortable.

Additionally, Aleks Syntek adds that he has raised his kids to be tolerant. However, the concept of tolerance may differ in his household, as a tolerant person may choose not to attend gatherings or simply refrain from engaging in arguments over musical preferences for the sake of peace, even if they are seeking the 'happening' experience.

According to the singer-song writer, his son's rejection of genres like reggaeton or trap stems from his own musical taste, which he attributes to the upbringing he has provided. You don't say!

This incident not only highlights the influence of upbringing on preferences but also underscores the ongoing debates surrounding cultural differences. Ultimately, it serves as a reminder of the diverse perspectives and tastes within society and the importance of respecting individual choices, even in matters as seemingly trivial as music.

Why Flexibility Rules

So, here's the scoop: being adaptable isn't just about dodging curveballs; it's about catching them and responding with a certain understanding! According to ERMA, an established a global learning centre for professionals in Enterprise Risk Management, "adaptability opens up your mind to new ideas, makes you question status quo, and gives you the willingness to go against convention." Adaptable people aren’t scared of change, as they will first make necessary plans to handle it. Yep, you heard that right—flexibility is the new black!

Tthis TikTok cannot have explained it any better:

The Entitlement Epidemic

Unfortunately, we've got an entitlement epidemic on our hands. Nearly a third of teens in the U.S. think the world owes them big time. Yikes! That entitlement mentality is not exactly the ticket to Adaptabilityville.

So, how do we raise mini adaptability superheroes? Encouraging kids to be open, to try new things, step out of their comfort zones, and see things from other people's perspectives is like flexing those adaptability muscles at the gym. And speaking of flexing, us grown-ups gotta walk the talk too! By showing our kids how to rock an open mindset, we're basically teaching them adaptability superpowers.

Cool Kids, They Seem to Fit In

Just like the lyrics of the popular song go, "I wish that I could be like the cool kids, 'cause all the cool kids, they seem to fit in," the message is clear: coolness isn't about conformity, but about accepting others for who they are. By teaching our kids to live and let live, we empower them to celebrate differences and create a more inclusive world.

Wrapping Up

So there you have it. In a world where change is constant, adaptability is crucial. I suggest we build a different society by raising our future generations to be as flexible as they can be, happy, and less stressed out. Because life's not easy, and with simpler issues on our minds, we can definitely live happier.